grrrrrrrr, scratch the two posts above!!!!
finally got to talk to marzo and he had some valuable advice
- make sure you have the starting scene enabled in the misc options
- in the unmodded game, enter map edit mode and in ES menu go to File -> new mod
- fill in your mod details
- exit Exult and ES
- start Exult in map edit mode by using the --edit switch (exult.exe --edit)
- select your mod in the mod menu
- start a new game
- the game starts paused because of map edit mode
- take note of the avatars *exact* coordinates (F2 cheat menu)
- edit the map including the initial chunk
- save via the Es save menu or ctrl-s
- exit and you should be able to start a new game including the first scene